Hi Everyone! It’s Kirsten and its been a while since I posted anything. My only excuse is that I haven’t been able to find the time to write – I barely have time to shower, let alone keep up a blog!  But, I’m going to get better. Especially because I’ve recently left my job at the Boys & Girls Clubs of Dorchester and taken on a position of President, Chief Operating Officer of Domestic Affairs at 28 Elm St.  So, I’m in day three of my new job and I thought I’d give you all an update about how things are going. I plan to try to check in more regularly- I’ll try for once a week until I get adjusted to my new position.

First of all, my bosses are the best (I am so lucky to have two) While they demand a 12 hour work day where I sometimes  start at 6:30 am and work until 7pm, they are extremely friendly and like to smile and laugh at me a lot.  They seem to time this perfectly for when I might be feeling a little tired from the night before or just need a break. Speaking of breaks, they don’t allow for much flexibility. They eat bottles four times a day and just started eating solids three times a day. And while they do take two naps a day,  Marin sometimes only naps for 45 minutes, which allows me a very small window to jump in the shower or maybe check my email. So I apologize for not returning phone calls or emails. It’s fast and furious around here until 7:30 or so, and then I have about an hour and a half to eat dinner and clean up, get ready for the next day. Yes, Graham and I get in bed around 9pm now.

So, in case you were wondering, here is a run down of what I do all day in my new job:

  • 6:30-7: wake up, report for duty. Change the first diapers of the day, but bottles in the warmer, lay out blankets on play room floor
  • 7/7:30- First Feeding: Camden needs prune juice in her bottle every feeding which often results in the first change of clothes for the day. She likes to spit up and spill prune juice/milk all over her and me. Marin is consistently a good eater of her bottle, Camden is not. She likes to take her time and we often battle getting that last ounce or two down.
  • 8:00- 9:30: Morning Playtime! This usually entails a 15 minute rotation of rolling on the floor, practicing sitting, having a dual jumping competition or reading stories. It’s kind of like that work out place Curves. It’s an intense circuit and all about distraction.  We are also beginning to institute  a “snack time” into this chunk of time
  • 9:30- 11:00: Morning Naptime. The girls will usually go down for their nap together, in the same room, different cribs.  (At best, I get a 90 minute break and so I take a shower or clean up the dirty bottles then it’s right back at it….)Usually Marin wakes up after 45 minutes and Camden keeps sleeping so sometimes I get the experience of having one baby to manage instead of two which can often be a nice treat.
  • 11:00/11:30 – Mid morning bottle.
  • 12:00- 1:00: Walk or more play time. If the weather allows I like to get the girls out for some fresh air ( and Wrigley too). The girls love our Bumbleride stroller, and sometimes they are so relaxed they begin to nod off, so I do anything I can to keep them awake until we get home and they can nap in their cribs.
  • 1:15- Post lunch/walk snack- we are just beginning to institute this before their nap
  • 1:30/2:00 ish: Afternoon nap. The length of this nap all depends on how the morning nap went! I usually cross my fingers for at least 60 minutes.
  • Post 3pm: Afternoon bottle and playtime: This is where the day gets the most intense as we need to make it until 7pm on that 15 minute circuit of activities. Again, it’s all about distraction here!
  • 5:30: “Dinner”: Overall, the girls aren’t great eaters. Camden likes the solid food more than Marin, but if she eats too much, she won’t take a much of her bottle. Marin likes the bottle more than the solids so we are still working on finding a balance for both of them.
  • 6:30/6:45: Evening Bottle/bed time: We admittedly only bathe the girls every 3 days or so- unless of course if there is a blowout situation that we deem a bath is necessary. But doing two bath times during their peak fussy time is tough, especially if Graham is working late.

So, that’s it! In between all this activity, I try to fit in at least one “project” which can range from putting in a load of laundry, cooking dinner or organizing their clothes. It all depends on my workload for the day. And, if my bosses are in good moods. But so far, so good.

I can already tell that my bosses love me and that I’ve done the right thing by accepting this challenging, but extremely rewarding position. I feel so blessed that I am able to spend so much time with the girls. Its such an amazing experience to have two babies and I hope you’ll continue to check in on us- and I’ll try to report more frequently about how we are doing!  I’ve included some photos below so you can see what our day is like. My next project is to learn how to upload some video, but alas, the bosses are calling me to get back to work!

Lots of love,

Kirsten Nelson

President and Chief Operating Officer
Domestic Affairs
28 Elm Street

Marin and Camden are very aware of each other and each other's toys

This is the circuit I mentioned that includes 2 swings, 2 bumbo seats, 2 jumpers, 2 boppees and 2 bouncy seats, many teething rings and lots of toys!

This is after a cold winter walk this week in our Bumbleride stroller

Here they are eating in the Phil and Ted's booster seats- they are such big girls sitting at the counter!